Self is a fictional character portrayed by Bartise Bowden in the TV series Love Is Blind.
They appear in 16 episodes out of a total of 83 aired so far and have accumulated 631 positive votes.
Self is also portrayed by Salvador Pérez, Diamond Jack, Amber Pike, Matthew Barnett, Mark Cuevas, Lauren Speed, Cameron Hamilton, Giannina Milady Gibelli, Damian Powers and Jessica Batten.
Episodes16
Welcome to Love Is Blind!
episode S3.E1 october 2022Things move quickly as a new group makes intense connections in the pods. One couple trades three little words, and then four: "Will you marry me?"
Love Triangles and Love Triumphs
episode S3.E2 october 2022For one woman, the third shot at love might be the charm. Bartise and Nancy both feel torn between two different people. Two more couples get engaged.
The First Night Together
episode S3.E3 october 2022Nancy weighs two proposals and finds clarity. The second phase of the experiment begins as five engaged couples leave the pods and head to Malibu.
Meet Your Exes
episode S3.E4 october 2022The couples settle into real-life time together in Malibu and finally meet each other at a cocktail night, where old feelings cause a few new bumps.
Trouble in Paradise
episode S3.E5 october 2022Romantic dates and a pool party cement bonds for some couples but raise doubts for others. Cole is surprisingly honest, ruffling a few feathers.
Return to Reality
episode S3.E6 october 2022Transitioning back into their everyday lives in Dallas, the couples navigate frank conversations around finances and meet each others' families.
Impress the Parents
episode S3.E7 october 2022More meetings with family and friends lead to soul-searching. At a bar night, a particular conversation at the pool party makes waves all over again.
The Perfect Fit
episode S3.E8 november 2022One couple works through setback and another pair resets while others get to know their parents' friends. The brides and grooms go shopping.
The Last Supper
episode S3.E9 november 2022With a few days left before the weddings, the couples enjoy romantic final dates. Colleen expresses doubts. Can one couple resolve their conflicts?
Approaching the Altar
episode S3.E10 november 2022The ladies hit the strip club for their bachelorette party, while the guys get their hands dirty at the rodeo. Wedding day dawns for two couples.
The Wedding Day
episode S3.E11 november 2022As more couples head to the altar, some finish the day heartbroken while others--despite their doubts--take the plunge and say, "I do."
The Reunion
episode S3.E12 november 2022This season's current and former couples sit down with Nick and Vanessa for an emotional conversation to clear the air and look back at their wild ride.
After the Altar: Soulmates and Blank Slates
episode S3.E13 february 2023While one married couple enjoys wedded bliss, another negotiates big questions. One-time exes reconnect. The women and men meet up separately to debrief.
After the Altar: The Party Is Just Getting Started
episode S3.E14 february 2023Preparing for Alexa's birthday bash, Nancy has an emotional conversation with her family and Zanab gets glam. Drama swirls around Cole at the party.
After the Altar: A Second Shot at Love?
episode S3.E15 february 2023Colleen and Matt navigate challenges as they look to the future. One man, hoping for a second chance at marriage, plans a grand gesture.
The Reunion
episode S4.E13 april 2023In this reunion special, the Season 4 cast dishes on love, life and lessons learned after saying "I do" -- or "don't."
- Welcome to Love Is Blind!
- Love Triangles and Love Triumphs
- The First Night Together
- Meet Your Exes
- Trouble in Paradise
- Return to Reality
- Impress the Parents
- The Perfect Fit
- The Last Supper
- Approaching the Altar
- The Wedding Day
- The Reunion
- After the Altar: Soulmates and Blank Slates
- After the Altar: The Party Is Just Getting Started
- After the Altar: A Second Shot at Love?
- The Reunion
Best moments8
- For one woman, the third shot at love might be the charm. Bartise and Nancy both feel torn between two different people. Two more couples get engaged.
- Nancy weighs two proposals and finds clarity. The second phase of the experiment begins as five engaged couples leave the pods and head to Malibu.
- Things move quickly as a new group makes intense connections in the pods. One couple trades three little words, and then four: "Will you marry me?"
- The couples settle into real-life time together in Malibu and finally meet each other at a cocktail night, where old feelings cause a few new bumps.
- Romantic dates and a pool party cement bonds for some couples but raise doubts for others. Cole is surprisingly honest, ruffling a few feathers.
- Transitioning back into their everyday lives in Dallas, the couples navigate frank conversations around finances and meet each others' families.
- More meetings with family and friends lead to soul-searching. At a bar night, a particular conversation at the pool party makes waves all over again.
- The ladies hit the strip club for their bachelorette party, while the guys get their hands dirty at the rodeo. Wedding day dawns for two couples.
- Love Triangles and Love Triumphs
- The First Night Together
- Welcome to Love Is Blind!
- Meet Your Exes
- Trouble in Paradise
- Return to Reality
- Impress the Parents
- Approaching the Altar